Saturday, December 19, 2020

Love VS 50

 Love VS 50    

1970    2020


We began dating my senior year, December 1968. Jeff and Roxanne convinced her to  invite me to the Arlington Heights High School Backwards Dance.



                                        




 Lynn had joined my church All Saints Episcopal. We attended pre-marriage class with Father Dewolf. Since we were getting married in December during advent, we had to get the Bishops, permission. We were allowed to use the Chapel, perfect it was a small wedding.



Saturday, December 19, 1970
Are all 50th Anniversary's on the same day?







Roseann & Vance, Lynn's aunt and uncle  hosted the wedding reception in her Ft. Worth home. Lynn's' mom Peggy, and my Father George, My Grandparents Nandy and Muzz and Lynn's' Nana and PopPop. Martti, Lorraine, Roxanne, Ginger and Tommy with Brother Dave and Susan up front. On the Launch pad in our 60'Chevy to 2020 and Beyond..

Muzz and Nandy's 50th
Married Friday, December 8, 1922
Friday, December 8, 1972, Hmm, they were married young also in December. I read a book once on Universal Patterns.



Sister Ginger and Lynn serving Cake and Punch at Muzz and Nandy's 50th



We recall going to my Grandparents 50 year Anniversary celebration held at their First Baptist Church in Grandview, Texas. My father remarked to me that a 50 year anniversary is  pretty incredible and of course the  celebration is an event not to be missed. I recently checked out the statistics and it is somewhere around 7% of marriages that make the 50 year mark. We do not find it "that" remarkable. For one thing I am the forever optimist and Lynn has the genes of a Missouri native American so her senses are as full as they can get along with her intuition. Ours lives and careers centered around family and community so the supportive environment I am sure contributed to this moment. We were sure our purpose in life was our children, only to find out later that it wasn't them at but it was our Grandkids!

From Ft. Worth, Arlington, San Antonio, Austin, Corpus Christi and Mustang Island, The Gulf of Mexico and Atlantic waters, Seattle and Puget Sound waters, and now back to Austin, Texas we are grateful for the friends, family and communities that made each of those years a shared learning experience full of love and gratitude. We don't look back often, mostly enjoying right now 



Speaking of "Incredible", this picture Is Incredible to us. Most of the Austin Family is in this one year old pic, We hope to update as soon as we can all gather again with the entire Austin Family.
                           






Monday, November 30, 2020

October-November 2020 Time Will Tell

First I must give thanks  to Thomas Logan who introduced me to  several books during our early years that stimulates the mind and encourages questions. Our generation, as most, searched for the answers to the challenges they inherit from the previous generations. It's the age old quandary of what am I doing here and how do I proceed. So certain books like Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, (which of course stimulated research on Buddism).  The Teachings of Don Juan and  a text on Quantum  Physics, among other readings that might lead to a direction. 

Given the predicament of the covid-19 crises it seems that we again have time to think about such things and the idea of "Time" has naturally come to my mind for not so unique reasons. I again turned to looking at a couple of sources. I recently watched a documentary on Albert Einstein. Time is one component of the essential theory's to our modern age.

To put time into human terms though takes a bit more so Buddhism again provides the best complement (I believe ) to the complexity of Quantum Physics. The following was taken from a Buddhist website that I misplaced the link to : (just Google Zen Buddhist explanation of time)

 Very basically, in most schools of Buddhism, it is understood that the way we experience time -- as flowing from past to present to future -- is an illusion. Further, it could be said that the liberation of Nirvana is liberation from time and space.



"Time is not separate from you, and as you are present, time does not go away. As time is not marked by coming and going, the moment you climbed the mountains is the time-being right now. If time keeps coming and going, you are the time-being right now."

As for time being illusory and the universe being nothing but a series of separate "instants," like frames in a movie, that's basically correct. Everything we call "the past" is, literally, nothing but present memories. Likewise, everything we call "the future" is nothing but present memories inverted, or rearranged, to form a prediction or expectation. The appearance of "time" is little more than a trick of memory, as the Avatamsaka Sutra (Flower Ornament Scripture) says. You can easily discern this for yourself: simply figure out what it is you consider "the past" and "the future." You will discover that it is nothing but thoughts--nothing but memories, nothing but expectations, nothing but mental commentary. It's "all in your head," so to speak. There's really no such thing as time. There is really only Now--an eternally present Present with no beginning and no ending. Everything is completely new, distinct, and original every instant, with no real "change" or "motion" at all. The mystic-philosopher Heraclitus, explaining this point, said, "A man cannot step in the same river twice."

Zen Buddhism, in particular, stresses this very significant insight. Here's the Sixth Patriarch, Ch'an Master Hui-neng:

"In this moment there is nothing that comes to be. In this moment there is nothing that ceases to be. Thus there is no birth-and-death to be brought to an end. Thus the absolute peace in this present moment. Though it is at this moment, there is no limit to this moment, and herein lies eternal delight."

When you transcend your thinking mind in the realization of your own pure, timeless, ever-present Awareness, then the illusion of time completely collapses, and you become utterly Free of the samsaric cycle of time, change, impermanence, and suffering. This, my friend, is nothing at all to be "depressed" about! Rather, the fact that your own Buddha Mind exists beyond time, in THIS very moment, is itself the key to your permanent and eternal (timeless) Liberation.



I recall some college course that discussed religions and when we got to the Buddhist religion I remember the professor remarking that "all events in time are equal" Meaning that no moment in time is any more important than another. He went on to talk about the music of the Buddhist having no crescendos or decrescendo. All moments in the music piece are of equal importance. I certainly do not regret participating as fully as possible in the Western music, especially Jazz. It is easy to appreciate the value of meditative sounds.

As the Admiral and I are both approaching our 7th decade in these bodies, looking in any direction it is certainly difficult to find a moment more important than another. There are many blessings given to use in this time of Pandemic. The small stuff has found its equality with all those other things that we thought were so much more important.

Moments of October & November

Drew has the gift of making funny faces gene. Fun making faces and laughing.

Sweeter than Pie.

Halloween Hoops

Dad and Big D constructing

Frame complete another day for the finishing touches.

I had fun remembering how to change a flat tire, how many years has it been? 

A bucket of loose lego parts + hours of fun making Star Wars ships for the next movie.

A creek of leaves



Central Texas Fall colors on a clear warm day 

nd he inherited plenty of art genes from his
California Nona!

Grandaughters Liv and Ella living in Brooklyn together

See You Later Santa

The final renovation project

Believe me, there IS Zen in imperfection.

Have a Guava Christmas

A very Sweet 16 Birthday in Brooklyn


"There's really no such thing as time. There is really only Now--an eternally present Present with no beginning and no ending."


Wednesday, October 14, 2020

Time Machine August/September 2020

Time Machine August/September 2020


 We moved in to our old Homestead, The first night was surreal to say the least. There were many small projects left to complete and no list was needed, just start in and its kind of one foot in front of the other kind of thing till you get it all done. Graeme continued to help on weekends and always brought a super handy grandaughter along to help. No longer did we have the living room, den, Graeme's room and Lia's room. Instead we had the  Dance room, the Game room, the music room, and the exercise room which is still in development. The garage and outdoor spaces belong to the younger grandkids as they are learning you can play and learn outside all day long every day in Texas. Having a retired kindergarten & grades K-5 gifted and talented teacher for a Grandmother pays off big in 2020.

The Time Machine arrives with all our Worldly belongings. 
Easiest move we ever made from so far away. 
Our daughter who had a part time home assistant loaded all our stuff up in the family truckster and I used Uship.com to hire a trucking company to load up the Time Machine in Seattle and a week later arrives at our driveway in Austin.

The Time Machine and the Little Truck that can back in their Back to the Future Spots.
déjà vu

One of the best projects you can do in 105 temperature is to recoat a roof with elastomeric.

Well miss the 12th floor patio view but now have a plenty big shady backyard on the Ground floor.

The previous living room was our music room but now is a Game room. The Admiral realized a small dream of having her own ping pong table.

I named her Lucille II
She is not a Gibson ES-335 but she plays and sounds the same to me.
Unfortunately Lucille II was pretty lonely in August and September I still pledged to do at least one thing every day for the homestead. We are getting back together now.


  Creating a new New Normal here in Texas is not without the uneasy weirdness the 2020 pandemic brings, but all this Texas Space and having the family just minutes away softens the reality.

Friday, August 28, 2020

June-July 2020 What Happened to the Phrase " An Inch is as Good as a Mile"?

 June-July 2020 What Happened to the Phrase " An Inch is as Good as a Mile"?


We were driving today and as I turned the corner the Admiral exclaimed " You came pretty close to that curb!" . My brain was immediately reminded  me of the moment when I was a teenager riding along with my mom and she came scarily close to a parked car, and I said " you sure came close to that car!"And she said " An inch is as good as a mile". At the moment I did not think so but I never forgot that moment. Today I repeated that phrase to the Admiral " An inch is as good as a Mile!" She did not think so either. 

I have been pondering that phrase all day and so I googled the phrase to find its origin, I had already imagined several scenarios where it would have applied to my parents generation.  This proverbial expression, first recorded in 1614, is a shortening of the older form, “An inch of a miss is as good [or bad] as a mile of a miss.”  https://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/a-miss-is-as-good-as-a-mile.html

Well I imagined so many instances where the phrase was entirely appropriate for a generation that survived so many challenges especially World War II. There must be thousands of men and women that narrowly escaped certain death. My father was a  highly decorated Army Air Force pilot that was known to fly supplies to South Pacific troops and landing on dirt fields among enemy fire to deliver supplies to those on front lines.  An inch was a welcome instance. 

In 2020 6 feet is now known to be to close and some are advising 15'! We have developed a bubble of sorts, now being called a Pod so that we can continue seeing our close family here in Austin. We marvel at how we imagined that as we left Seattle we were pretty sure we would return within two months and three months for sure. A plan was spawned to rent an RV and we would ride along with our daughters family back to Seattle avoiding the risk of hotels and pubic bathrooms. By the first of June the reality was overwhelming and so we switched gears and made a decision to not renew the lease with our tenets in our Austin house

The tenets were given a 60 day notice and we would be moving back into our old homestead August 1. June was spent making plans for completing any necessary renovations in the month of July so that we could move in July 1. We soon found out that since so many are stuck at home with no where to go for summer vacation they are all doing some type of renovations and all the skilled essential workers in Austin are booked weeks out. 

The last time I painted the entire interior of our Brookdale home was over 10 years ago as we were preparing the house for lease. Fortunately  my son Graeme dedicated his weekends and he brought along one of our granddaughters Ella and Liv each time to help paint, pressure wash and act as a lock smith as well.If I remember right we spent around $5K getting the house ready to lease, the renovation and move in expenses were more than double plus the scheduling of a plumber, handyman, and pest control guy added to the stress of having strangers in your home during a pandemic. A month was almost not enough time but we got the house in good enough shape to move in and we could spend August finishing up the details. 


Well this picture represents all the places we have traveled to and places where we had fun eating out or going to music events, hiking, boating, sports events, or just hanging out with friends and family, there are at least 50 in the set. 
It is also a picture of one of the walls we painted.Notice the shadow lurking, this represents the unfinished list.




Try this with record consecutive triple digit days. 



Check out this Eyed Click Beetle
Its all about the small stuff, sharing at least 50 Texas bugs with the grand kids is where it's AT!


. Learning to live where the Inch has probably disappeared for a very long time and Love is more about Distance


PS: Of good note, our tenets of 10 years were able to buy their first home, good things evolved for everyone.

Wednesday, June 3, 2020

Austin Living Inside May 2020, What Time is it?

Austin Living Inside May 2020 What Time is it?

What time is it? Do you remember when time seemed to be going way to fast?

When we arrive in Seattle almost 7 years ago, things were moving much faster than our previous three years spent aboard our cruising boat Wand'rin Star. Life certainly slows down when you are never moving faster than 6 knots and most of the time you are moored somewhere new and you just take your sweet time to explore new environments. A year is a Year! Then a move to Seattle, one of the Tech hubs of the planet, and all of a sudden the pace picks up....you become a time traveler. The months are screaming by and it is already New Years Eve? In the course of a "cruising year" your first born grandson turns six and his little sister three. 1=6.

Then we all are placed into at self isolation at home. 2020 will definitely become known as the loongeest year on record. Any idea of returning to the old normal is completely gone, and figuring out the new normal will be a very long experiment. Self Isolation routines are just as personal as any other part of ones life.
Here is our daily routine:
8:30-9am Wake Up
9-10:30 Lazy Breakfast/coffee, Watch the morning news.
11-12:30 I practice guitar, the Admiral does stuff, like read, or cook, or keep up with the latest pandemic news from Seattle, Fort Worth, and Austin on Google
12:30 -1:30  Richard Simmons Sweating with the Oldies Aerobics routine together.
1:30-2:30 Lunch and some PBS documentary
2:30-3:20 Short walk in the neighborhood.
3:30 Then the Admiral talks with her 87 yr old dad, and I practice some more guitar.
Mess around
5:30 time for Happy Hour and the Evening news.
The Admiral finds sleep around 10:30, I stay up and watch a movie on Amazon Prime.

Some days we sweep and mop, every ten days or so I go to HEB to pick up an order.

On Weekends the Grandkids come over and enjoy the back yard and swimming pool. Since they are also adhering to strict stay at home procedures we have a nuclear family bubble that can co-exist.

As the picture becomes very clear we are adjusting future plans almost on a daily discussion basis. For people in our age group, those over 65, we must accept that we will continue to live in this self isolation life style until there is a vaccine. Even if and when a remedy becomes available we will live out our lives much differently. The next unknown virus is just around the corner and hence we will forever be guarding our health. Living in a 12 story condo building is out. Living in a single family home is back in. The way we travel to and from different cities will change to a slower mode of transportation. Flying is out, slow road trips are in.


A White Morph Squirrel, at first we thought it might be an albino, but no red eyes so Google helped sort it out.
Slowing down to wildlife speed is a great way to spend a May Texas day with grandkids, lots of Texas wildlife right in the backyard, Definitely different from the Pacific Northwest!
A Green Anole Lizard loves the Iron plants in the backyard.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anolis_carolinensis

A cool looking moth on the fence.

Indian Blanket
https://texashighways.com/wildflowers/wildflowers-of-texas/


Prickly Pear

https://www.inaturalist.org/lists/103702-Cacti-of-Texass-Check-List

Scarlet Hedgehog


Yuca
Barrel Cactus



Lots of Deer this year in Northwest Austin adding to the city nature.

The Family Naturalist

Frozon crayons, ice cube with water coloring.

We are Blessed this house had a pool!

A type of soccer golf, 2 points if you get it in the chiar.

Thank you Mark! Mighty fine Coffee, made every morning of May very special.

A student of mine from back in the day contacted me on messenger, Charlie Whitman, and wanted to thank me for being one of the few teachers who helped him along. The bonus points from a career in teaching are the calls you get from previous students thanking you for your small part in their lives, and seeing how they are successfully living out their purpose in life. This is a recent band pic and he is certainly living a very full life. he is a very intelligent person who simply did not fit in the public education box, a man well ahead of his times.


First let me say I am Not Judging!
As we choose how to spend our expendable income, perhaps we can avoid doing these types of single use celebrations. Instead of spending $170 for something to help fill up land fills, perhaps it might be better spent doing something sustainable to celebrate, like plant a very special tree that will remind her, him, or they of the special moment for many years to come and help our environment recover from to many years of excessive carbon. Just one example of thousands of ways you could spend the $170 in a much more loving and sustainable wayhttps://www.texasballoondelivery.com/austin-yard-balloons

Teaching Texas Essential Skills: Sitting on a tailgate and enjoying it!